I have a small penis and because of that I am scared of getting intimate with a girl.

I have a small penis and because of that I am scared of getting intimate with a girl. I'm so lonely and I don't know what to do. Is there something I can do to improve myself for my short comings?

Hi,

Thank you for reaching out about this issue. I can imagine that this is a sensitive subject, but I am sure there are others who wonder the same thing.

In this society there is a lot of stigma when it comes to body image, including when there is a message that “size matters”. But when it comes to sex and intimacy, size really does not matter. Sexual intimacy is more than sexual intercourse. This is an opportunity to find new things do with each other, rather than focusing on one way of doing it specifically.Men who have smaller-than-average penises who find a lot of sexual confidence often do so through educating themselves in all these other ways of engaging sexually. They learn that good sex isn't just what you see in porn and that it doesn't require a huge penis.

As for breaking the ice with a new partner, be honest about it. Men shouldn't stress about this so much, because it only reinforces the idea that it's something to be ashamed of. There is nothing to be ashamed of.

I hope this helps,
Auntie Manda