I asked a girl out, but she didn’t respond…

I asked a girl out but she didn’t respond to me…

I am happy you are reaching out about this, feeling rejected when you ask someone out can be really painful.

It is important to remember that asking someone out takes a lot of courage, so good job for putting yourself out there. I want you know that her not responding to you is not a reflection of who you are as a person. But it is important to respect people’s boundaries when stepping out into the dating pool.

There are a lot of reasons why this person may or may not have responded to you, but you should respect them for that. It is important to know that she may not have responded to you, for many reasons. Maybe she is dating someone else, or she doesn’t want to date at all. Maybe her parents don’t want her to date, or she is busy with other things in her life. Maybe she did not respond because she does not want to hurt your feelings.

Whatever the reason this is not a reflection of you and who you are as a person. There are lots of people in this world and there is someone out there who will want to go out with you. Try to remember the good things you like about yourself, the things you are proud of, and the positive things in your life. If you’re still bummed, try talking to someone you can trust about what happened. Be patient, be kind to yourself, be yourself and you will meet people who you can explore many kinds of relationships with.

Good luck,
Auntie Manda

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