I feel very insecure about my penis size and I’m not sure what to do.

Hey Auntie, I feel very insecure because of my penis size and I’m not sure what to do. I am 4 inches erect and feel like I am not pleasurable to a woman. It has bothered me for as long as I can remember. Is that too small? I know the average is 5.5. Does that inch and a half make a huge difference? Also, are penis stretchers like quick extender or something like that bad for your body?

Many people have questions about sexual anatomy, where certain body parts are, how those body parts work, and if their body parts are normal. Your question is a common one.

You don’t need to worry about whether your penis, or any other parts of your body are normal. You don’t need to worry about getting a penis stretcher either. Each person’s body is different — and different is normal.

All penises have the same parts: glans, shaft, urethra, and all have testicles hanging below. Here’s one that’s erect, or hard. Some have foreskins, some are circumcised and have no foreskin. Some are shorter, some are thicker, some are thinner, some curve when they’re erect. All are normal.

When it comes to our bodies, different IS normal. Here’s how different our bodies can be.

Here are some of the most common questions we hear about sexual anatomy. We hope you find them helpful.

Accepting that your bits are normal might be a process, so keep in mind that confidence in your own skin is healthy and attractive. Don’t mess with perfection!

Thanks for writing in!

Auntie Manda

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