Relationships Posts
Check out the latest news, views, and thoughts from young people across Indian Country.
National Loving Day
National Loving Day celebrates interracial marriage and the precedence set for same...
Does Size Really Matter?
As a teenager, we’re all consumed with similar worries. From wanting to...
Sexual Orientation: A Spectrum Of Attraction
Heads Up: Sex Must Start with Consent
The idea of having sex can be both exciting and nerve-wracking! You...
What is Roe v. Wade?
You might have heard about Roe v. Wade being “overturned.” This article...
Sex Assigned at Birth and Gender Identity: What Is The Difference?
Wait what?! That’s what you do with lube?
A little-known fact is that lube can be a real game-changer when...
Sex 101
People define “sex” in different ways. The dictionary defines it as “sexually...
Sexual Orientations Explained: Lesbian, Gay, Heterosexual and Bisexual
Oral Sex
Oral sex is using one’s mouth to stimulate a partner’s genitals. Just...
Protecting Yourself During Oral Sex
It is possible to get HIV and other STDs during oral sex...
Becoming Jane Doe
Alara, an Athabaskan and Tlingit transwoman, found her gender identity through drag....
Protecting Yourself During Anal Sex
Anal sex involves inserting one partner’۪s penis into another partner’۪s anus. It...
Protecting Yourself During Vaginal Sex
Vaginal sex happens when a partner’s penis is inserted into another partner’s...
There’s Heart Here
Roller derby champion. Activist. Cyclist. Follow three indigenous members of the Two...
Withdrawal – Pulling Out
Withdrawal is when the man pulls his penis out of the vagina...
The Real Story about Dental Dams
Giving and receiving oral sex can be fun and feel good. But...
Saying Yes or No: What Is Consent?
Internal Condom Instructions
***Remember to always check the expiration date and package of any condom...
Top 10 Sex Myths
MYTH #10: If I use birth control, I don’t need to worry...
Consent And Communication
Condom Shopping Guide
Get the facts!
Talking to Your Partner About Protection
The thought of talking to a partner about sex makes a lot...
Consent Explained: What Is It?
Abstinence
Abstinence means not having sex (that means NO vaginal, oral, or anal...
The Shot – Depo
The Shot, or Depo- Provera®, contains a large dose of a progestin...
Top Signs Boys are in Puberty
Pill, Patch or Ring
What is it and how does it work to prevent pregnancy? Hormones...
Sponge
The Sponge is a soft plastic (polyurethane) sponge that is worn in...
Top Signs Girls are in Puberty
Sterilization
For women sterilization includes a surgical procedure that permanently blocks her fallopian...
Weird (but normal) Body Facts
Our bodies are amazing and house many secrets! Are you curious to...
Taking Care of Your Body During Puberty
6 Questions to Help You Find the Right Birth Control for You
Are you curious about what birth control options are out there? Here...
PSA This Relationship Advice is Actually Genius
Relationships – whether they are with our family members, friends, or significant...
Puberty: What Is Doctor Confidentiality?
Native Women Just Can’t Anymore
Sex can be fun and empowering. However, some of us – especially...
What’s PrEP
PrEP makes preventing HIV easy. But, what is PrEP, and who is...
Accessing Sexual Health Care for Minors
What you Need to know about your Vagina and Vulva
Have you ever looked at your body and wondered, “Is this normal?”...
Access to Abortion
The overturning of Roe v. Wade has caused concern about safe access...
Bodies: Different Shapes and Sizes. All Beautiful!
Getting Tested for HIV
If you’re thinking about getting tested for HIV, it’s normal to have...
National Missing and Murdered Indigenous Person’s Awareness Day
Indigenous people have long experienced disproportionately high rates of violence compared to...
Does Penis Size Really Matter?
What is the MMIW Movement?
MMIW stands for Missing and Murdered Indigenous Women. It’s a movement that...
Form Healthy Relationships with Trusted People
Coping with trauma on your own can be difficult. Think of the...
Menstruation: What To Expect
Lateral Violence
What is Lateral Violence? Lateral violence- also called internalized colonialism or horizontal...
Protect Your Peace from Toxic Relationships
What does it mean to protect your peace? Protecting your peace means...
Period Hygiene: Tampons, Pads and Menstrual Cups
Supporting A Loved One
It can be painful watching those we love struggle. We may feel...
Talk About It
Does the idea of giving a friend negative feedback about their behavior...
How the Boner Grows
Healthy and Unhealthy Relationships
We all have relationships with a variety of people, including friends, boyfriends,...
Is My Relationship Healthy?
All relationships exist on a spectrum from healthy to abusive with unhealthy...
All About Getting Your Period
Resources for Exploring your Sexual Identity
Your sexual orientation will emerge over time, probably little by little. Don’t...
Helping a Friend Who’s Been Raped
Getting support from people they love and trust can be invaluable for...
Masturbation: Totally Normal
Creating Safe Spaces
While the perpetrators of violence (like intimate partner violence, domestic violence, or...
Tips to be an Engaged Bystander
Leading up to every violent incident (be it intimate partner violence, domestic...
Puberty and Finding Out Who You Are
Native VOICES episode 1
50 Shades of Grey? Nah, try 50 Shades of Native VOICES! The...
Native VOICES episode 2
Winter is here and so is snagging season. Use condom sense and...
BRAVE: Episode 5
Native VOICES Episode 3
We R Native. We R Proud. Accept Yourself. Protect Yourself. Tune in...
Native VOICES Episode 4
We all care about protecting ourselves and the ones we love. Embrace...
BRAVE: Episode 2
Infant Immunization Week
To promote the importance and achievements of vaccines, especially in protecting the...
Banana Pancakes
February is the month of love and a time to recognize that...
Sunhawk / Managing Stress
Honor LGBTQ2S People
Protect yourself and your family from suicide. Statistics show the risk of...
Randy George
My name is Randy T George. I’m 27, full blooded Native. I’m...
Nadira / Reaching Out for Help at College
Reese Tahmalwash
I am Reese Tahmalwash, I’m from the northwest, am a member of...
Shea Norris
My name is Shea Norris, I’m 23 years old and I come...
Healthy Relationships PSA
Love
The first time I fell in love, I didn’t have the foresight...
Adoption: Deciding to Search for Your Birth Family
If you are adopted, it is possible that you might not know...
I Like the Minty ones
Native VOICES – the best sex ed videos you’ll every watch...
Are You Safe?
At times we underestimate the amount of danger we could be in...
Arguing With Your Parents
Don’t get along with your parents or guardians? Often arguing and feel...
Lived Experience: Ceci’s Story
Two Spirit: loved & accepted
Overcoming Loneliness
If you are feeling socially awkward, there are things you can do...
Communicating About Grief With Your Family and Friends
After someone dies, it can be hard for everyone to adjust. Family...
Lived Experience: Randy’s Story
LGBT: loved & accepted
Listening to a Friend Who Needs You
Friends are often the first people that we turn to when we’re...
Overcoming Shyness
Shyness is usually associated with being quiet, insecure, and/or socially anxious. Being...
Lived Experience: Reese’s Story
LGBT: loved & accepted
Meeting New People
Meeting new people can be a lot of fun. It can be...
More Tips for Communicating Effectively
Tip #1: Use ‘I’ statements. An “I” statement is a way of...
A Gift from the Creator
LGBTQ-Two Spirit: You are a gift from the Creator. You are part...
Resolving an Argument or Disagreement
It is normal to argue or disagree with people. Everyone experiences some...
Safe Body Language
Using body language, like eye contact, posture, facial expressions or touch, can...
Lived Experience: Shea’s Story
Two Spirit: loved & accepted.
Safe Online Chat
Meeting people with similar interests can be fun and exciting, and it’۪s...
Starting at a New School
Whatever your reason, moving into a new school can be an intimidating...
Warriors Against Violence Society
“Women’s Honour Song”
Step-Families
You might face a range of issues when you become part of...
Understanding Sexting
Sexting is the term used to describe the exchange of nude images...
Healthy Realtionships
The Merrill Middle School students put together a video highlighting what they...
When Your Friend is Distressed
When one of your friends is really upset, it can be a...
When You Need Help: Your Family Can be There for You
Sometimes when you go through a tough time, you may need someone...
Native Love is Community
Alaska is home to 229 federally recognized tribes. Of those tribes operating...
When Your Parents Break-Up
As family relationships change, there may be a lot of adjusting to...
A Few Definitions: Gender and Sexual Identity
Biological Sex: Your biological sex is the way your body was made. Most...
Native Love is Compassion
Raelyn Rodriguez is a member of the Rincon Band of Luiseño Indians...
A Girl’s Guide to Sex Myths
It’s easy to be confused about sex. There are so many mixed...
A Guy’s Guide to Sex Myths
Rumors and myths about sex are everywhere. Between what you hear from...
Native Love is Respect
Justin Secakuku is a member of the Hopi Tribe of Arizona and...
Abusive Relationships
Not all relationships work out, no matter how much we might want...
Assessing a Relationship
Sometimes relationships work well and are easy, and other times they can...
Reclaim the Fire
A video written by the youth of Rosebud to address the issues...
Being a Lesbian
Women usually describe themselves as lesbian when they find that they are...
Violence
Violence occurs when one person uses power and control over another through...
STD Testing – How to Know if You Have an STD
How do you know if you have an STD? There’s only one...
Long Distance Relationships
Long distance relationships can be any type of relationship, including family, romantic...
Looking After Your Child
Because the first years of a child’s life are the most important...
Ready for Level 3?
Are you ready for level 3?
Losing Your Virginity
It seems like everyone talks about sex; your friends, characters on TV,...
Maintaining a Happy Relationship
Even when a relationship is going good, it’s important to work at...
Native It Gets Better
Here’s my personal vlog about being queer in today’s world! This is...
Male Condoms
Condoms are thin sheaths most often made out of latex (rubber). Male...
Managing Relationship Pressures
When you’re in a sexual or romantic relationship, you might experience different...
Traditional Stories of Sexual Health
Joey Criddle is a Two Spirit man fighting with other LGBTQ Native...
Masturbation
Most people do it – yet so many people worry about it!...
No Method: Wishing and Hoping
Wishing and hoping is not really a method. It doesn’t work! How...
Pregnancy-Teen Parents Panel
At the Native STAND youth conference in Chehalis, WA (summer 2009), four...
Pregnancy Options
If you’re pregnant, you have three options to think about — abortion,...
Preparing for Parenthood
Having a baby means making changes in your life. These can be...
Condoms 101
How you store your condoms is just as important as how you...
Puberty – Common questions from girls
Please note: In this article, we are working towards using inclusive language....
Puberty – Common questions from guys
Please note: In this article, we are working towards using inclusive language....
Condoms 101
Before you put it on Here are some tips on what you...
Girls Reproductive Anatomy
Here are some answers to common questions about the female anatomy, including...
Guys Reproductive Anatomy
Does size really matter? Many boys worry about the size and shape...
Different Is Normal
Changing bodies Being different is normal.You don’t need to worry about whether...
Safer Sex
Safer sex reduces our risk of getting a sexually transmitted disease (STD)....
Sexual Identity and Orientation
Your sexual orientation is a reflection of your sexual and emotional feelings...
Girls Could Be So Mean
It is hard to stand up for what you believe and the...
Sexual Violence
Sexual violence is any type of sexual activity where one (or more)...
Should I Get Tested?
You might be wondering if you need a test for sexually transmitted...
Hey There Chlamydia
Hey There Chlamydia, Plain White T’s Parody Music Video. Created by: Keith...
Some Facts About Your First Time
You might have a lot of questions about what your first time...
STD Testing FAQ
Why Should I Get an STD Test? Sexually transmitted diseases (STDs, also...
I’m Single and I’m Happy
How to be alone. A video by fiilmaker, Andrea Dorfman, and poet/singer/songwriter,...
STD Testing for Youth Under 18
Getting tested for STIs and HIV is important for everyone. Once we...
STD/HIV Prevention Strategies for LGBTQ2S
It is important to know that the most common symptom of a...
Native Love
We would like to show love and recognition to all Native women...
