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Dear Auntie, I’m still a virgin but my boyfriend isn’t. We’ve been together for a long time and I think I’m ready, but I’m scared. What do I do? Will it hurt? How do I prepare myself?

Hey there, I’m so glad you wrote in. It’s normal to feel excited or anxious when thinking about having sex for the first time. Just remember that there’s no right or wrong time to start having sex – it varies for each person. A good first step is to talk about it with your boyfriend. It’s really important that you…

I just broke up with my boyfriend. Honestly I don’t feel anything. Why?

  I just broke up with my boyfriend. Honestly I don’t feel anything. Why?   We all process things differently and that’s okay. Perhaps you’ve observed others going through a breakup and it looked much differently from the outside than what you’re experiencing. Perhaps you have some ideas beforehand about how you thought you would feel. Things don’t always match…

I was raped 6 months ago and I dont want to report

Hi Auntie, I was raped 6 months ago and I am 22 years old and I don’t want to report because at the time it was my boyfriend at the time, but we broke up and I want to tell my counselor, but I don’t want to report Dear relative, I am so sorry to hear you were raped by…

I’m 13 is it ok to cuddle with my aunt in the bed

Is it ok to cuddle with my aunt in bed?  No. Certainly not in the way that you are implying. You’ll find that many tribes have warnings against this. Like the Zuni Koyemshi, or mud head dancers. Their facial figures are distorted and over exaggerated, as they are the result of an insestual relationship. They are known as the clowns…

What is the history of where the G spot came from and what is it?

What is the history of where the G spot came from and what is it? The G-spot is a place reportedly located about 2.5-3 inches inside the vagina that is said to cause great sexual arousal. Some women feel it and some don’t. The evidence is a bit mysterious because the “spot” doesn’t appear to be a distinct structure, but…

What is your take on consent?

What is your take on consent? Consent is a complex issue, but really import to understand when entering to relationships. Thank you for bringing this up. Consent is important to understand in ALL our relationships, romantic or personal. Most people think about consent in the context of sexual or physical activity in romantic relationships. Consent is also important to understand…
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