Q: How can I approach an Elder?
You approach an elder with respect.
Historically among my people, the Cheyenne, we would put a piece of lump of coal in front of an Elder, especially if they were a person who’d been through our ceremonies to protect them from anything we might be carrying.
And to approach an Elder today? Again, with respect, with kindness. Maybe bring a plate of food, bring a treat.
I used to see people when I traveled with my grandfather and they would come up to him and they would kneel next to him and then they would talk to him in a respectful and a kind way. That’s all you have to do.
Come talk to us, we’d be delighted to have conversation with you.
Take care,
Nishgit Nay
Grandma Nay – Renée Roman Nose
