Q: How can I enjoy being alone more?
I think if you can really enjoy being alone and really enjoy your own company that will make a huge difference in the quality of your life. Life will just be better. Because when you do, you realize that you don’t need anybody else to make you happy. You can find happiness on your own.
I do recognize that this can be a hard thing, but it’s totally worth it. This has been one of the hardest things for me because there was a time when I felt like I always needed to be in a relationship. I felt like I always needed to have someone else to make me happy because ultimately, I didn’t know how to make myself happy. I didn’t know how to take a step back and allow myself the space to enjoy time by myself and really just see myself for who I am. If you can’t look at yourself and see yourself as a whole and you’re unhappy you really need to more spend time alone with yourself getting to know more about the things you like and the things you don’t, along with the things that you are okay with and they things that don’t serve you, rather than trying to find those answers from other people. Sometimes spending time with other people can distract you from the things you need to learn about yourself that can only come through silence and spending time with yourself.
So, just really taking the time to sit with yourself, you know, smudge if you need to, cry if you need to.
Take care,
Sister Q
Quannah ChasingHorse
