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I’m a Native girl who primarily dates non-Native men.

Dear Auntie. I’m a Native girl primarily dating non-Native men. I still feel impacted by historical trauma. How can I talk to my partners about this cultural divide, if I should? It is challenging to address these complex conversations, but it is important that we have these conversations with everyone…

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Topics: Culture and Language, Identity, Non-Native Allies, Relationships, Spirituality

Neither sides of my family accept me and treat me as if I’m “off”. What should I do?

Dear Auntie, I’m half White Mountain Apache, half Hispanic and neither sides of my family accept me and treat me as if I’m “off”. What should I do? Not being appreciated for your heritage can be difficult, especially if it’s coming from your family members who you want to love…

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Topics: Culture and Language, Identity, Intolerance, Relationships

How do I get in a relationship

How do I get in a relationship? There is no easy answer to this question because there are so many ways to meet people. When trying to meet people we should consider a few things. You have to put yourself out there to meet people. This can be scary because…

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Topics: Relationships, Sexual Health

Can I get pregnant by giving head?

I’m glad you asked because there are a lot of misconceptions out there on STDs and oral sex. If you don’t know the answer, you’re right in asking the question so you have the knowledge to protect yourself. The short answer is no, you cannot get pregnant from oral sex.…

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Topics: Physical Health, Relationships, Sexual Health

I want out of sex trade

Dear Auntie, I want out of the sex trade You are so brave for reaching out. No one deserves to be forced to do things against their will. Your next steps may feel full of uncertainty, but I want you to know that there are caring people out there who…

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Topics: Intolerance, Non-Native Allies, Physical Health, Relationships, Sexual Health

How do I approach someone that I see in the same place almost everyday? We always make glance at each other and smile but I’m uncertain if I’m getting the wrong signals or not.

Only you can decide if you’re attracted to someone and it’s okay to take some time to decide if a relationship is right for you. In making this decision, you might want to consider what you want from a relationship. Am I ready for a relationship? It’s not unusual to…

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Topics: Life Tips, Relationships

My little brother is going through a lot and I want to help him.

Hey well I have a problem my little brother is going through a lot and I want to help him. He is under a lot of pressure. He lashes out at people and is apathetic. I try to help him but he pushes me away. Thanks for reaching out. It…

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Topics: Identity, Mental Health, Relationships

How do I tell my mother that I have depression?

Dear Auntie, how do I tell my mother that I have depression? Hey there! I’m so glad you wrote in. I’m proud of you for knowing yourself well enough to know that something is off and it’s time to do something about it. Likely, your mom may have noticed that…

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Topics: Identity, Mental Health, Relationships

How do I move on from this toxic person/relationship???

Hey Auntie. I’ve known and dated this person. Sadly we didn’t last. I’m very hooked onto this person and I love this person, but they have put me through a lot. Emotionally and Mentally. How do I move on from this toxic person/relationship??? Hey there, thanks for writing in! Breaking…

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Topics: Mental Health, Relationships

STDs and commiting to sex

I want to get tested for stds but I’m only 13 and idk what my mom will say or do about it. I really love my boyfriend but he’s ready to commit to sex, but I don’t think I am. What do I do? Hey there. I’m so glad you…

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Topics: Relationships, Sexual Health

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I’m a Native girl who primarily dates non-Native men.

Neither sides of my family accept me and treat me as if I’m “off”. What should I do?

How do I get in a relationship

Can I get pregnant by giving head?

I want out of sex trade

How do I approach someone that I see in the same place almost everyday? We always make glance at each other and smile but I’m uncertain if I’m getting the wrong signals or not.

My little brother is going through a lot and I want to help him.

How do I tell my mother that I have depression?

How do I move on from this toxic person/relationship???

STDs and commiting to sex

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