How is it that the government doesn’t fulfill there promises on utilities such as water and electric?
Hi there and thanks for writing in! I wish this was a straightforward question that had a clear answer because that would mean that we could quickly resolve these issues. In short, these are issues that Indigenous people and their allies have been working on for near a century. The…
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Do you know anything about visions?
Hi there! Thanks for writing in. Dreams or visions are such a fascinating story to tap into. I too have incredibly vivid and detailed dreams. Often, I can feel, smell, and make decisions within them. They used to scare me because some of them were pretty intense. If you have…
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I want to learn about the story of the spider catching the snake but I can’t verify or find it. Is this a real Ojibwe tale? I am trying to learn more about my Native American culture.
Hi there! And, thanks for writing in. There are many stories about spiders, like spider woman or grandmother spider. However, I’m not familiar with the spider catching the snake story. Perhaps because it is Ojibwe, which I’m not so familiar with. If it’s possible, try to reach out and start…
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I was recently given photos of my great, great grandmother. She is holding a long bow and dressed in what I assume is her native clothing. I am very interested to know more about her and what tribe or band she is from. How do I go about doing this?
Dear Robin, How meaningful that you found this picture of your great, great grandmother! Identity and knowing who we are is one of the most important journeys we can walk. I encourage you to explore your identity. This is a great start. There are many ways you can do this,…
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Hey auntie, I started liking one of my close guy friends a while back but I don’t want to ruin anything what do I do?
This is a question many people before you have asked and one that will continue long after…how do you make sure you don’t to get in the friend zone. Here’s a couple tips: Make sure you don’t get in the friend zone by moving towards romantic partner status Take a…
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Hey Auntie, my brother andI have been arguing about washing our masks every time after we go grocery shopping. I don’t think it needs it every time, but my brother does. Who’s right?
Well, first good on you for wearing your masks when you’re out. Sorry, but your brother is right on this one. You should treat your mask like a biohazard: Don’t let it touch anything, especially things like the kitchen counter or coffee table Put your cloth mask in the washer,…
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How do I deal with family members who treat me differently because I’m mixed and act ugly to my mom ugly because she’s not a tribal member?
Dear Relative, I am so sorry that your family members are not treating you well. Not being appreciated for your heritage can be difficult, especially if it’s coming from your family members who you want to love and respect. Not feeling connected to your family because of it can be…
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I am 1/4th native American Indian how do I apply for tribal money
Hey there. Well, there are a couple things to keep in mind. First thing, you’ll need to register with your tribe. Second thing, not all tribes and tribal members receive dividends or revenues. So if you haven’t already registered with your tribe you’ll need to do that. Just Google your…
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Is it appropriate for someone who was not brought up in native culture to seek guidance from a native elder or healer?
Dear Bianca, By asking this question I can see you have concerns. Listen to your gut…and let’s talk this through. Spirituality and seeking guidance are personal. We all connect to our beliefs and traditions uniquely. However you choose to do, is the right way for you. I can’t speak to…
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