I am a sophomore in high school, and I really want to go to college. How do I save for it?
Alex, it’s awesome that you are thinking about how to cover your college costs right now. Auntie gives you an A+ for initiative! These tips will help youon your way: First, if you don’t have one already, get a job. Duh, I know. But getting a job when you are…
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I am interested in this guy, but I heard from a friend that he has herpes.
Is it true that you can use a condom but still get herpes? Dave, it’s true that you can use a condom and still get an STD. One of the main reasons for this is that some STDs, like herpes and HPV, are spread by skin-to-skin contact (when your skin…
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I don’t look Native and I get a lot of teasing for it. How do I convince people I’m Native?
Anna, you are not alone. I know many young people who don’t feel “Native enough” and who are made to feel less because they are bi-racial, lighter skinned, don’t speak their tribal language, or because they didn’t grow up on their rez. We are battling among ourselves when we judge…
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I feel stuck in an unhealthy relationship, but he won’t let me go.
Hey there, thanks for writing in. This is a tricky situation and I’m glad you’re reaching out for help. When it comes to setting up boundaries with the people you love, especially those who are working hard to keep things the way they are, it can be reallydifficult and guilt…
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I feel very insecure about my penis size and I’m not sure what to do.
Hey Auntie, I feel very insecure because of my penis size and I’m not sure what to do. I am 4 inches erect and feel like I am not pleasurable to a woman. It has bothered me for as long as I can remember. Is that too small? I know…
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I get bullied by this girl because the boy she likes is dating me.
I get bullied at school everyday by this one girl because the boy she likes is dating me. She tells me to kill myself and I just don’t know what to do anymore? – Zah Geo – Hi Zah Geo. First off, I’m so sorry that you have to…
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I graduated high school but am lost on what to study or where to go?
Hey There! Yes, graduating from high school and deciding what to do next is definitely one of the biggest transitions in a young person’s life. It’s no wonder you’re feeling a little lost, and probably overwhelmed. It might be hard to believe, but most people feel this way during this…
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I have an idea my relative is thinking about suicide. What should I do?
Mike, thank you for your question. Suicide is an important issue that affects many of us. From an Auntie’s eye view, one of the most important things is to show your relative that you care. If you feel comfortable, talk to them in private about the signs of suicide you…
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I have friends back home that give me a hard time about leaving my rez.
I don’t know what to say. How can I shake it off? Dear “A,” people leave their reservations for different reasons… sometimes for school, a job, to travel, join the military, or to be closer to someone they love. I don’t know your reasons for leaving, but it stinks that…
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