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Check out the latest articles for people across Indian Country.

How to Date Yourself

Dating can be hard, especially if you don’t know what you are...

How to Deal with a Breakup

There is not one way to magically get over a breakup completely...

Saying Yes or No: What Is Consent?

Does Size Really Matter?

As a teenager, we’re all consumed with similar worries. From wanting to...

How to Help a Friend Who Drank Too Much

Being around a friend who drank too much can be scary, especially...

Consent And Communication

How to Face Your Bully When You Go Back to School

Going back to school after a break, whether summer or Christmas, can...

Establishing Healthy Boundaries with Family

Family relationships can be beautiful but tricky to navigate at times. Learning...

Consent Explained: What Is It?

Ways to Help a Friend Who is Being Bullied

Bullying is never fun or funny, especially when it’s happening to a...

Heads Up: Sex Must Start with Consent

The idea of having sex can be both exciting and nerve-wracking! You...

Top Signs Boys are in Puberty

How to Access Free or Low-Cost Birth Control

When it comes to birth control, there are many different options available...

HPV Vaccine

Human papillomavirus (HPV) is one of the most common sexually transmitted infections...

Top Signs Girls are in Puberty

Real Talk About Sexual Pleasure

Sexual pleasure comes from understanding how your body works and what feels...

Thinking About Having Sex

It’s important that you think through your decision to have sex with...

Taking Care of Your Body During Puberty

Wait what?! That’s what you do with lube?

A little-known fact is that lube can be a real game-changer when...

Sex 101

People define “sex” in different ways. The dictionary defines it as “sexually...

Puberty: What Is Doctor Confidentiality?

Oral Sex

Oral sex is using one’s mouth to stimulate a partner’s genitals. Just...

Protecting Yourself During Oral Sex

It is possible to get HIV and other STDs during oral sex...

Accessing Sexual Health Care for Minors

Protecting Yourself During Anal Sex

Anal sex involves inserting one partner’۪s penis into another partner’۪s anus. It...

Protecting Yourself During Vaginal Sex

Vaginal sex happens when a partner’s penis is inserted into another partner’s...

Bodies: Different Shapes and Sizes. All Beautiful!

Withdrawal – Pulling Out

Withdrawal is when the man pulls his penis out of the vagina...

The Real Story about Dental Dams

Giving and receiving oral sex can be fun and feel good. But...

Does Penis Size Really Matter?

Internal Condom Instructions

***Remember to always check the expiration date and package of any condom...

How to Use an External (Male) Condom

If you choose to have sex, condoms can protect you and your...

Menstruation: What To Expect

Top 10 Sex Myths

MYTH #10: If I use birth control, I don’t need to worry...

How to Stay Safe When Traveling

Whether you’re going somewhere a couple of hours away or outside the...

Period Hygiene: Tampons, Pads and Menstrual Cups

History of Native Reproductive Health

It is no secret that the federal government has tried for centuries...

How to Use Ride Sharing Services Safely

Rideshare services, like Uber and Lyft, are good options when walking or...

How the Boner Grows

Condom Shopping Guide

Get the facts!

How to Stay Connected with Old Friends

A major part of growing up is experiencing new things in life....

All About Getting Your Period

Establishing Healthy Boundaries with Your Significant Other

Whether you’re at the start of a new relationship or in the...

Humor is Sexy (Sometimes)

There are many qualities that can make someone sexy or attractive. Physical...

Masturbation: Totally Normal

Real Talk About Getting What You Need From Your Boo

In a healthy relationship, we should be appreciated, listened to, and have...

Talking to Your Partner About Protection

The thought of talking to a partner about sex makes a lot...

Puberty and Finding Out Who You Are

Abstinence

Abstinence means not having sex (that means NO vaginal, oral, or anal...

Condoms 101

If you are having sex, condoms are the only method that provides...

BRAVE: Episode 5

Emergency Contraception: The Morning After Pill

Emergency contraception is a special type of oral contraceptive that can be...

Dual Method

Many people, who have vagina-penis sex, use dual protection. Dual protection means:...

BRAVE: Episode 2

The Shot – Depo

The Shot, or Depo- Provera®, contains a large dose of a progestin...

Pill, Patch or Ring

What is it and how does it work to prevent pregnancy? Hormones...

Sunhawk / Managing Stress

Sponge

The Sponge is a soft plastic (polyurethane) sponge that is worn in...

Fertility Awareness: Rhythm Method

How does it work to prevent pregnancy? A woman identifies the days...

Nadira / Reaching Out for Help at College

Sterilization

For women sterilization includes a surgical procedure that permanently blocks her fallopian...

Weird (but normal) Body Facts

Our bodies are amazing and house many secrets! Are you curious to...

Healthy Relationships PSA

 

6 Questions to Help You Find the Right Birth Control for You

Are you curious about what birth control options are out there? Here...

PSA This Relationship Advice is Actually Genius

Relationships – whether they are with our family members, friends, or significant...

I Like the Minty ones

  Native VOICES – the best sex ed videos you’ll every watch...

Native Women Just Can’t Anymore

Sex can be fun and empowering. However, some of us – especially...

Shutting Down Slut Shamers

Enjoying sex or openly expressing your sexuality doesn’t make you a “slut.”...

Warriors Against Violence Society

“Women’s Honour Song”

What you Need to know about your Vagina and Vulva

Have you ever looked at your body and wondered, “Is this normal?”...

How to Use the Pill

The birth control pill (“the pill”) is simple to use and can...

Healthy Realtionships

The Merrill Middle School students put together a video highlighting what they...

Getting Tested for HIV

If you’re thinking about getting tested for HIV, it’s normal to have...

National Missing and Murdered Indigenous Person’s Awareness Day

Indigenous people have long experienced disproportionately high rates of violence compared to...

Reclaim the Fire

A video written by the youth of Rosebud to address the issues...

What is the MMIW Movement?

MMIW stands for Missing and Murdered Indigenous Women. It’s a movement that...

Form Healthy Relationships with Trusted People

Coping with trauma on your own can be difficult. Think of the...

Native Love is Respect

Justin Secakuku is a member of the Hopi Tribe of Arizona and...

Protect Your Peace from Toxic Relationships

What does it mean to protect your peace? Protecting your peace means...

Supporting A Loved One

It can be painful watching those we love struggle. We may feel...

Native Love is Compassion

Raelyn Rodriguez is a member of the Rincon Band of Luiseño Indians...

Talk About It

Does the idea of giving a friend negative feedback about their behavior...

Healthy and Unhealthy Relationships

We all have relationships with a variety of people, including friends, boyfriends,...

Native Love is Community

Alaska is home to 229 federally recognized tribes. Of those tribes operating...

Is My Relationship Healthy?

All relationships exist on a spectrum from healthy to abusive with unhealthy...

Helping a Friend Who’s Been Raped

Getting support from people they love and trust can be invaluable for...

STD Testing – How to Know if You Have an STD

How do you know if you have an STD? There’s only one...

Creating Safe Spaces

While the perpetrators of violence (like intimate partner violence, domestic violence, or...

Tips to be an Engaged Bystander

Leading up to every violent incident (be it intimate partner violence, domestic...

Ready for Level 3?

Are you ready for level 3?

Infant Immunization Week

To promote the importance and achievements of vaccines, especially in protecting the...

Banana Pancakes

February is the month of love and a time to recognize that...

Condoms 101

Before you put it on Here are some tips on what you...

Love

The first time I fell in love, I didn’t have the foresight...

Adoption: Deciding to Search for Your Birth Family

If you are adopted, it is possible that you might not know...

Condoms 101

How you store your condoms is just as important as how you...

Are You Safe?

At times we underestimate the amount of danger we could be in...

Arguing With Your Parents

Don’t get along with your parents or guardians? Often arguing and feel...

Different Is Normal

Changing bodies  Being different is normal.You don’t need to worry about whether...

Overcoming Loneliness

If you are feeling socially awkward, there are things you can do...

Communicating About Grief With Your Family and Friends

After someone dies, it can be hard for everyone to adjust. Family...

Girls Could Be So Mean

It is hard to stand up for what you believe and the...

Listening to a Friend Who Needs You

Friends are often the first people that we turn to when we’re...

Overcoming Shyness

Shyness is usually associated with being quiet, insecure, and/or socially anxious. Being...

Hey There Chlamydia

Hey There Chlamydia, Plain White T’s Parody Music Video. Created by: Keith...

Meeting New People

Meeting new people can be a lot of fun. It can be...

More Tips for Communicating Effectively

Tip #1: Use ‘I’ statements. An “I” statement is a way of...

I’m Single and I’m Happy

How to be alone. A video by fiilmaker, Andrea Dorfman, and poet/singer/songwriter,...

Resolving an Argument or Disagreement

It is normal to argue or disagree with people. Everyone experiences some...

Safe Body Language

Using body language, like eye contact, posture, facial expressions or touch, can...

Native Love

We would like to show love and recognition to all Native women...

Safe Online Chat

Meeting people with similar interests can be fun and exciting, and it’۪s...

Starting at a New School

Whatever your reason, moving into a new school can be an intimidating...

Natives Helping Natives

A Public Service Announcement filmed by youth participants at the NativeSTAND conference...

Step-Families

You might face a range of issues when you become part of...

Understanding Sexting

Sexting is the term used to describe the exchange of nude images...

Pregnancy Options

Tanika shares what advice she would give to a friend if they...

When Your Friend is Distressed

When one of your friends is really upset, it can be a...

When You Need Help: Your Family Can be There for You

Sometimes when you go through a tough time, you may need someone...

Pregnancy-Teen Parents Panel

At the Native STAND youth conference in Chehalis, WA (summer 2009), four...

When Your Parents Break-Up

As family relationships change, there may be a lot of adjusting to...

A Girl’s Guide to Sex Myths

It’s easy to be confused about sex. There are so many mixed...

Puberty

Video created by Menominee students for the We R Native website

A Guy’s Guide to Sex Myths

Rumors and myths about sex are everywhere. Between what you hear from...

Abusive Relationships

Not all relationships work out, no matter how much we might want...

Sex 101…Thinking About Having Sex

A video addressing the risks that can come with having sex, such...

Assessing a Relationship

Sometimes relationships work well and are easy, and other times they can...

Violence

Violence occurs when one person uses power and control over another through...

The New Kid

Starting a new school

Long Distance Relationships

Long distance relationships can be any type of relationship, including family, romantic...

Looking After Your Child

Because the first years of a child’s life are the most important...

To the Indigenous Women: A Poem by the 1491s

Raise Awareness and Help End the Epidemic of Violence against Native Women...

Losing Your Virginity

It seems like everyone talks about sex; your friends, characters on TV,...

Maintaining a Happy Relationship

Even when a relationship is going good, it’s important to work at...

Violence Against Women

Please contact your senators and representatives and urge them to pass a...

Male Condoms

Condoms are thin sheaths most often made out of latex (rubber). Male...

Managing Relationship Pressures

When you’re in a sexual or romantic relationship, you might experience different...

Masturbation

Most people do it – yet so many people worry about it!...

No Method: Wishing and Hoping

Wishing and hoping is not really a method. It doesn’t work! How...

Preparing for Parenthood

Having a baby means making changes in your life. These can be...

Puberty – Common questions from girls

Please note: In this article, we are working towards using inclusive language....

Puberty – Common questions from guys

Please note: In this article, we are working towards using inclusive language....

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